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The Very Thought Of Him - May 16, 2008

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Quotes & Quips - Alice Mary Hilton

"A person's worth is contingent upon who he is, not upon what he does, or how much he has. The worth of a person, or a thing, or an idea, is in being, not in doing, not in having." - Alice Mary Hilton

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Gay Relationships: Ready To Find Mr. Right?

Sometimes it seems like every single guy in the world is out there trying to find Mr. Right.  (Not everyone, of course; some guys are perfectly happy to be single, and that’s a valid choice.) (This article is part of a continuing series for GAYTWOGETHER authored by John R. Ballew, M.S., a licensed private practice professional in Atlanta - specializing in issues related to coming out, sexuality, relationships and spirituality.)  Frustrated by the search, some men hear advice like this when they complain to friends:  “When you’re really ready, he’ll show up in your life.”  So how do you know when you’re ready?

Here are some signs that you’re not ready for a relationship:

You imagine that a relationship will raise your low self-esteem;

You look to a relationship to give your life purpose that it now lacks;

You have very few healthy, caring relationships of any sort now, and you figure a lover is a good place to start.

Becoming part of a couple doesn’t provide these things; instead, it requires them before you are ready to start the relationship.

Picturing Guys Twogether - May 16, 2008

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Unfortunate Gay Relationship Cookies

For those of you who have experienced a not-so-nice gay relationship break-up, these clips are for you.  You're much better off without him, and if you don't feel it now, you will!

"Unfortunate Gay Relationship Cookies" are original clips, many inspired by actual real life situations and edited or written by the editor of GAYTWOGETHER. Thank you for your continued emails, comments and suggestions. If you would like to send your ideas to us, please email us at gaytwogether@gmail.com

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The Very Thought Of Him - May 15, 2008

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My Personal Story: 1000 Reasons To Leave Him - A Continuing Series - Part 4

"A really long relationship with a really wrong person." - Michael

This is a my personal life for almost 18 years and my continuing series of 1000 Reasons To Leave Him. The trick is to find out before it’s too late and not to close your eyes because you are blinded by how much you love him. Don’t let him use you, take advantage of you, or isolate you. Don't let him manipulate you into staying. Don't let him wear you down so that your self-worth becomes so low you feel like you have no choices. And don’t remain silent because you’re afraid.

1000 Reasons To Leave Him - Continued:

16. When he starts writing and cashing large checks and tells you he needs to keep emergency money in his office.

17. When he works ten minutes from the house, says he has to work an extra hour, and then he's caught in traffic jam that lasts over an another hour ( 1 hour + 1 hour = 2 hours of ? ).

18. When you wake up in the middle of the night and you think you hear the televison.  It turns out to be him moaning while having sex and doing drugs with some guy in the living room.  And then, making sure it's loud enough for me to hear, he's tells the guy to wait a minute because he wants to watch him get off. ( More about the other guy soon ).

19. When in November he tells you that he's decided we're not having Christmas this year.

20. When he calls you from his latest "business dinner" and you ask him what restaurant he's at. He says he doesn't know, so you ask him to look at the name on the menu, and he tells you there is no name on the menu.

(To be continued, 980 more to go, so stay tuned )

Today's Advice: "If it's your truth, and his lies, it's best to have video tapes.

Continued after the jump:

Quotes & Quips - Dorothy Thompson

"There is nothing to fear except the persistent refusal to find out the truth, the persistent refusal to analyze the causes of happenings." - Dorothy Thompson

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5 Deadly Relationship Mistakes Gay Couples Can Make

Whether you’re just starting out in a new relationship or have been long-term partners for many years, how does a gay couple maintain their relationship over the long haul and sustain that “magical spark” that drew them together in the first place?  Relationships do require attention and focus, and this article will present five deadly mistakes that you can make that can wreak havoc in your partnership, almost ensuring conflict and unhappiness. Remedies will also be offered, and keeping these points in mind can help stave off relationship discord—and even prevent a potential breakup from ever being considered!

Deadly Mistake #5: Getting into predictable, monotonous routines: Once you get into the groove of your relationship, you can begin to feel comfortable with the safety and familiarity it breeds. However, in the long run, this can create a stale environment of boredom and “same-ness”, leading many couples to feel restless, unfulfilled, and “itching” for a change. Break out of that rut by bringing more spice and novelty to your relationship. Shake things up a little bit and dare to be different! Surprise your lover with a night out on the town to break up the mundane workweek. Introduce more creativity and variety into your sex life. Keep him guessing and on his toes for what’s coming next. By bringing in a little more excitement and stimulation, the chemistry between the two of you will be nourished, reaffirming your connection and strengthening your bond.

Picturing Guys Twogether - May 15, 2008

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California's Top Court Overturns Gay Marriage Ban

In a monumental victory for the gay rights movement, the California Supreme Court overturned a voter-approved ban on gay marriage Thursday in a ruling that would allow same-sex couples in the nation's biggest state to tie the knot.

Domestic partnerships are not a good enough substitute for marriage, the justices ruled 4-3 in striking down the ban.  Outside the courthouse, gay marriage supporters cried and cheered as the news spread.

Jeanie Rizzo, one of the plaintiffs, called Pali Cooper, her partner of 19 years, and asked, "Pali, will you marry me?"  "This is a very historic day. This is just such freedom for us," Rizzo said. "This is a message that says all of us are entitled to human dignity."

In the Castro, historically a center of the gay community in San Francisco, Tim Oviatt started crying while watching the news on TV.  "I've been waiting for this all my life," he said. "This is a life-affirming moment." The city of San Francisco, two dozen gay and lesbian couples and gay rights groups sued in March 2004 after the court halted the monthlong wedding march that took place when Mayor Gavin Newsom opened the doors of City Hall to same-sex marriages.

"Today the California Supreme Court took a giant leap to ensure that everybody — not just in the state of California, but throughout the country — will have equal treatment under the law," said City Attorney Dennis Herrera, who argued the case for San Francisco. The challenge for gay rights advocates, however, is not over.

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The Very Thought Of Him - May 14, 2008

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Quotes & Quips - Blaise Pascal

"We know the truth, not only by the reason, but also by the heart." - Blaise Pascal

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Overheard At The Watercooler

( Another cartoon provided by our friends at thegaycartoonsite.com )

Picturing Guys Twogether - May 14, 2008

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