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The Very Thought Of Him - January 23, 2008

Heath Ledger 1979 - 2008

Quotes & Quips - MJS

"You said you didn't want to see me get hurt, does that mean you closed your eyes when you threw me out?" - MJS

Gay Relationships: The Verbally Abusive Partner

So often in a new relationship we learn the dynamic of the new relationship. This includes how you react together as a couple, with each other, and in group settlings. Backgrounds are very different and as our techniques in dealing and interacting with other people. One thing you need to be on the look out for is verbal abuse. Verbal abuse always takes place before physical abuse does. Knowing what the signs of verbal abuse are as well as being able to stop that treatment early on is key in a relationship.

Verbal abuse happens in many different ways. Examples of verbal abuse are putting someone down, such as calling them fat, or ugly. Other examples are if your significant other willfully ignores you, or otherwise controls contact with them. Easier examples are if your partner jokingly says something like your stupid, or you can't do that you don't have enough smarts, or similar remarks. These aren't the only ways to verbally abuse someone. The key is, if it hurts your feelings, the act is something that needs to be addressed.

You owe yourself and the relationship you are in to be honest about your feelings. You need to address your partner when they make comments like these. You can do so, by saying something like when you call me stupid it hurts my feelings. Then do not accept an answer from your partner such that they were joking. It is not acceptable to joke with someone in that manner, especially someone that you love and adore. You need to tell your partner that behavior is not tolerable and it will not be accepted.

Unfortunate Cookies - GAYTWOGETHER.COM

Unfortunate Cookies are original humor clips, many inspired by actual real life situations and written by the editor of GAYTWOGETHER. If you would like to send your ideas to us, please email us at gaytwogether@gmail.com

Unfortunate Cookies - GAYTWOGETHER.COM

Unfortunate Cookies are original humor clips, many inspired by actual real life situations and written by the editor of GAYTWOGETHER. If you would like to send your ideas to us, please email us at gaytwogether@gmail.com

Quotes & Quips - George Bernard Shaw

"If you have an apple and I have an apple and we exchange apples then you and I will still each have one apple. But if you have an idea and I have an idea and we exchange these ideas, then each of us will have two ideas." - George Bernard Shaw

Picturing Guys Twogether - January 17, 2008

Picturing Guys Twogether - Gallery

The Very Thought Of Him - January 16, 2008

The Very Thought Of Him - Gallery

Quotes & Quips - Benjamin Franklin

"Anger is never without a reason, but seldom with a good one." - Benjamin Franklin