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The Very Thought Of Him - March 31, 2009

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The Very Thought Of Him - March 30, 2009

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Picture This Thought: Did You Know?

G2G Gallery Guys - Luis Ernesto Franco

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Why Every Girl Needs A Gay Male Best Friend

Diamonds may be forever, but it turns out that a gay boy is actually a girl's best friend, according to a the book that is the first definitive guide to the "fag hag".  That many straight women set great store by gay male friends won't surprise fans who've watched Will and Grace sharing the secrets of their souls, or Sex and the City's Carrie and her screaming-queen buddy Stanford or Madonna and Rupert Everett, on- and off-screen.

"Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys" chronicles the (mostly) ups and (occasional) downs of having a gay man as a girl's best friend. -- true tales of love, lust and friendship between straight women and gay men was launched in New York with a rainbow of hysterical real life stories and a few predictably melodramatic tear-jerkers.

One of the book's editors, Melissa De La Cruz, said she sought to puncture the high-camp stereotype by telling how her gay male co-editor Tom Dolby was the rock-solid shoulder who was most there for her out of all her friends when she suffered a miscarriage and she and her husband were heartbroken. "He was a real man," she said. Much happier reinforcing the stereotypes was fashion writer Karen Robinovitz, who had "bridesgays" attending her at her wedding instead of bridesmaids and whose best friends and objects of unrequited lust growing up were always gay men. "My friends muse that my love affair with boys who like boys is out of emotional safety, but I wholeheartedly disagree. It's all about fashion," writes Robinovitz in her chapter Shop Girls.

The Very Thought Of Him - March 25, 2009

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Quotes & Quips - Leo Buscaglia

"Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around." - Leo Buscaglia

Gay Relationships: Fantasies And Fun Sex

Jack and Matt are both buttoned-down businessmen and have been together for ten years.They’ve been inseparable since Jack picked Matt up one night after cruising him for hours at the dance bar they frequent. The seduction was hot: eye contact led to physical contact, then making out in a dark corner before heading to John’s apartment. It was such a trigger for them that they recreate it several times a year, especially when they are out of town.

 

One of them gets to the club and buys a drink and waits. The other arrives soon after.They begin a seduction in full view of the other patrons of the bar. They get all over one another, enjoying the attention they attract – who have no idea that this game is one these guys have been acting out for years. These guys have found that erotic games and role-playing can be great ways to juice up their sex life.

We all play roles. A role is a just pattern of behavior we act out in exchanges with others. Roles involve playing parts or conducting yourself in certain ways. We do this all the time at work, with relatives and in other situations – usually without even thinking about it. Sometimes, though, roles are conscious. We chose a role because we have found it turns us on, or it turns on our partners.

The Very Thought Of Him - March 24, 2009

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Quotes & Quips - Margaret Mead

"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change
the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." - Margaret Mead