[ continued from yesterday ]
Connecting with others is good for us and is one way we nurture ourselves." In my last column, I suggested you take stock of where you are in your social life. Good questions to explore include:
How available are you?
Do you really want a boyfriend?
Or are you perfectly happy as an independent guy and just moaning about wanting a date because everyone else seems to be doing so?
Are you emotionally accessible?
Are you ready for the sort of openness intimacy requires of us?
What about your schedule – are you always working, or are you involved in a hundred different causes and projects?
How diversified is your social portfolio?
Do you hang out with the same people virtually all the time?